These relationships are often referred to locally as ‘blesser-blessee’ relationships.
The study points to a mix of harsh economic realities, persistent gender inequality, and social media influences as key factors behind these transactional partnerships. With youth unemployment hitting record levels, many young women find themselves entering relationships where basic needs such as food, shelter, and financial support are exchanged for companionship or intimacy.
Anisa Moosa, NSMSA’s National Co-ordinator, explained the dynamics at play: “Young women are engaging in relationships with older men where there is a significant age difference, and the relationship is often transactional. Essentially, something is given in return, often the fulfilment of basic necessities.”
This trend raises important questions about the vulnerability of young women and the wider social consequences. As economic pressures mount, the organisation is calling for increased support, including youth development initiatives and educational programmes, to address the root causes behind these relationships.
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